Because Life is Too Short

atas nasihat kak ila i nak cuba mengurut kampung. bukan kat bukit bintang tuh..huhu

dah tanya beberapa orang. tq semua~ esok baru nak call mane yang berkenan. harusla perempuan kan.

i mengurut masa nak kawen hari tu mula-mula sakit. lama-lama best. dah terlebih lama geli. mak cik tu cakap kalau dah rasa geli tu maknanye dah ok la tu..

report hari 1st makan hormon. tak de perubahan selera makan pon. masih makan macam biasa. shake 2 kali.

cumanya ngantuk la..haha..ade kene mengene ke? xde rasenye.

dengan itu saya mengumumkan berat i hari ni di hari first makan hormon itu andalah 56.7 kg. naik 0.7 kg berkat makan tak henti kat umah. dan juga berkat tak minum air yang cukup. mak takkesah .0.7 tuh ape la sangat. sekali berak dah hilang. velagak!

semalam i period lagi..

hari ni ibunda paksa suruh pergi hospital. i tak nak. tak nak terima kenyataan. tapi sebab kene paksa pergi hospital besar je pagi. tapi doktor pakar sakit puan ade hari selase je. jumpa la doc biasa. dia cek tekan -tekan jer. tangan dia ade sensor kut.hehe

dia cakap tak de pape. dia bagi ubat tahan darah jer.i tak puas hati. sebab takde bukti. alang-alang dah check ni, biar lah puas hati.

so masa ibunda lunch pergi klinik penawar. sebab nak doc perempuan. ibunda suka datang sini sebab doc ni jiran saya. memang baik.

buat ultra sound. takut sangat.

'eh, u ni pregnant la..sebenarnya yang u ingat period tu bleeding. tapi your baby dah takde heart beat dah. tapi ade lagi kat dalam ni ni. dah lama dah dia takde ni. u kene buat dnc'

oh.no.tak sanggup nak buat dnc lagi.

tapi TAK. imaginasi sahaja tu. tiada kene mengene dengan cerita.

camana kalau doc cakap i ade fibroid ke, cyst ke..ngeri weh..

tapi doc cakap takde pape. clean and clear. cuma dinding rahim tebal sangat. sebab hormon tak balance.tapi dia cakap biasanya orang 2,3 bulan hormon dah ok. tapi i dah nak 6 bulan. septutnya dah ok.

so dia bagi i hormon. ade jugak yang makan pil perancang kalau nak bagi hormon stabil.

tapi i tak nak. i nak pregnant. makan hormon potensi nak pregnant ade lagi.

so..bersedialah tengok maghfarah membesar lepas ni. sebab adik ipar i makan hormon membesar dengan jayanya. haih. takpe. demi rahim tersayang.

lagi satu. doc cakap hormon tak balance ni di pengarusi emosi i jugak. mungkin i pressure dengan environment kerja. hahaha. so i jawap. saya tak kerja lagi. tengah menganggur.

mungkin sebab awak pressure cari kerja. and i jawap 'mungkin kuttt'

tapi dalam hati,'hurm..tak pressure pon' =p

ape yang i pressure yer? rasanya hidup sekarang la hidup yang paling takde pressure. sampai orang cakap lepas kawen ni muke berseri-seri. seri pengantin kekal sampai 9 bulan u ol~

balik kampung kali ni sangat special. rasa macam VIP OKU je..sebenarnya saya masih lagi mampu berjalan slow macam siput. tapi en. suami terlebeh risau. memaksa isterinya menjadi oku.

kalau di ikutkan Dr. Idris, saya tak payah berpantang pon. tapi orang-orang tua suruh jugak berpantang untuk kesejahteraan masa tua. tapi masa nak balik, Dr Idris sempat pesan,

hello..hari ni saya nak mengajar tentang miscarriage dan DnC. kamu boleh google je sebanarnya. tapi sebelom ni tak pernah amik tahu.bila dah kene baru la terhegeh-hegeh. ni saya nak share dengan kawan-kawan, boleh di jadikan panduan dimasa hadapan.baca tau!

sumber: sini <<<---baru pandai buat bende ni!ok.noobs

miscarriage

Spontaneous abortion (SAB), or miscarriage, is the term used for a pregnancy that ends on it's own, within the first 20 weeks of gestation. Miscarriage is the most common type of pregnancy loss, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG). Studies reveal that anywhere from 10-25% of all clinically recognized pregnancies will end in miscarriage.(ini doc ade cakap, kalau pegi mane-mane pon,percentage ni tetap sama. ia tak dapat di jelaskan. dan saya ditakdir kan berada dalam kelompok kecil ini)

Most miscarriages occur during the first 13 weeks of pregnancy. Pregnancy can be such an exciting time, but with the great number of recognized miscarriages that occur, it is beneficial to be informed about miscarriage, in the unfortunate event that you find yourself or someone you know faced with one.

Why do miscarriages occur?

The reason for miscarriage is varied, and most often the cause cannot be identified. During the first trimester, the most common cause of miscarriage is chromosomal abnormality - meaning that something is not correct with the baby's chromosomes. Most chromosomal abnormalities are the cause of a faulty egg or sperm cell, or are due to a problem at the time that the zygote went through the division process. Other causes for miscarriage include (but are not limited to):

* Hormonal problems, infections or maternal health problems
* Lifestyle (i.e. smoking, drug use, malnutrition, excessive caffeine and exposure to radiation or toxic substances)
* Implantation of the egg into the uterine lining does not occur properly
* Maternal age
* Maternal trauma

erm dengan kata laen, itu semua kerja allah. allah tahu ape yang terbaek untuk kite

What are the Warning signs of Miscarriage:

If you experience any or all of these symptoms, it is important to contact your doctor or a medical facility to evaluate if you could be having a miscarriage:

* Mild to severe back pain (often worse than normal menstrual cramps)
* Weight loss
* White-pink mucus
* True contractions (very painful happening every 5-20 minutes)
* Brown or bright red bleeding with or without cramps (20-30% of all pregnancies can experience some bleeding in early pregnancy, with about 50% of those resulting in normal pregnancies)
* Tissue with clot like material passing from the vagina
* Sudden decrease in signs of pregnancy

semua tu saya alami. jahil gile tak tahu mase tuh! tapi sekarang dah tahu. kamu pon tahu kan?

procedure lepas saya miscarraged ni doktor cakap d&c. masa dengar tuh terpikir. natam ape la d&c ni? doctor cakap die akan bagi saya ubat untuk besarkan cervik saya, dan masukkan tiub. disebabkan saya masih belum pernah beranak. haruslah menunggu lama cerviks itu untuk membesar.

What is a D&C procedure?

D&C, also known as dilation and curettage, is a surgical procedure often performed after a first trimester miscarriage. Dilation means to open up the cervix; curettage means to remove the contents of the uterus. Curettage may be performed by scraping the uterine wall with a curette instrument or by a suction curettage (also called vacuum aspiration), using a vacuum-type instrument.

Is a D&C necessary after a miscarriage?

About 50% of women who miscarry do not undergo a D&C procedure. Women can safely miscarry on their own, with few problems in pregnancies that end before 10 weeks. After 10 weeks, the miscarriage is more likely to be incomplete, requiring a D&C procedure to be performed. Choosing whether to miscarry naturally (called expectant management) or to have a D&C procedure is often a personal choice, best decided after talking with your health care provider.

Some women feel comfort in going through a miscarriage in their own home, trusting their own body to do what it needs to. Some see this as a vital part of the healing process, eliminating the question of “what if?” about the health of the pregnancy. There are also many women who miscarry who have a history of gynecological problems and don’t want to risk the possibility of any more complications occurring from having a D&C procedure done. For most first trimester miscarriages, expectant management should be a viable option.

For some women, the emotional toll of waiting to miscarry naturally is just too unpredictable and too much to handle in an already challenging time. Healing for them may only start once the D&C procedure is done. A D&C may be recommended for women who miscarry later than 10-12 weeks, have had any type of complications, or have any medical conditions in which emergency care could be needed.

How is a D&C procedure done?

A D&C procedure may be done as an outpatient or inpatient procedure in a hospital or other type of surgical center. A sedative is usually given first to help you relax. Most often, general anesthesia is used, but IV anesthesia or paracervical anesthesia may also be used. You should be prepared to have someone drive you home after the procedure if general or IV anesthesia is used.

1) You may receive antibiotics intravenously or orally to help prevent infection.

2) The cervix is examined to evaluate if it is open or not. If the cervix is closed, dilators
(narrow instruments in varying sizes) will be inserted to open the cervix to allow the surgical instruments to pass through. A speculum will be placed to keep the cervix open.

3) The vacuum aspiration (also called suction curettage) procedure uses a plastic cannula (a flexible tube) attached to a suction device to remove the contents of the uterus. The cannula is approximately the diameter in millimeters as the number of weeks gestation the pregnancy is. For example, a 7mm cannula would be used for a pregnancy that is 7 weeks gestation. The use of a curette (sharp edged loop) to scrape the lining of the uterus may also be used, but is often not necessary.saya rasa saya yang ni la kan.rasa ngilu je bila baca balik.

4) The tissue removed during the procedure may be sent off to the pathology lab for testing.

5) Once the health care provider has seen that the uterus has firmed up and that the bleeding has stopped or is minimal, the speculum will be removed and you will be sent to recovery.

What are the possible risks and complications of a D&C procedure?

* Risks associated with anesthesia such as adverse reaction to medication and breathing problems
* Hemorrhage or heavy bleeding
* Infection in the uterus or other pelvic organs
* Perforation or puncture to the uterus
* Laceration or weakening of the cervix
* Scarring of the uterus or cervix, which may require further treatment
* Incomplete procedure which requires another procedure to be performed

What to expect after the D&C Procedure:

Most women are discharged from the surgical center or hospital within a few hours of the procedure. If there are complications or you have other medical conditions, you may be kept longer. You will more than likely be given an antibiotic to help prevent infection and possibly some pain medication to help with the initial cramping after the procedure. Things to know about taking care of yourself at home:

* Most women can return to normal activities within a few days, and some feel good enough to return to normal non strenuous activity within 24 hours.
* You may experience some painful cramping initially, but this should not last longer than 24 hours.
* Light cramping and bleeding can be expected from a few days to up to 2 weeks. Ibuprofen is usually suggested for treating cramps.
* You should not insert anything into the vaginal area, including douche and sexual intercourse, for at least 2 weeks or until the bleeding stops. (Your health care provider should give you specific instruction for when intercourse can resume.) hahaha..en. suami kene puasa.dan saya rasa lebih dr 2 minggu. macam dah sedikit takut. trauma kah?
* Tampons should not be used until you start your next regular period, which could be anywhere from 2-6 weeks after the D&C procedure.
* It will be unknown when ovulation will return, so once sexual intercourse is allowed, you should use a method of contraception until your health care provider says it is okay to try to get pregnant again.
* Make sure to attend your follow up appointment.

Most women experience few complications after a D&C procedure, but you should be aware of things that could signal a possible problem. Your health care provider should give you specific instructions on what you should expect, but you should contact them as soon as possible if you experience:

* Dizziness or fainting
* Prolonged bleeding (over 2 weeks)
* Prolonged cramping (over 2 weeks)
* Bleeding more than a menstrual period, or filling more than a pad an hour
* Severe or increased pain
* Fever over 100.4 °F or chills
* Foul smelling discharge

saya sehat seperti sedia kala. saya kuat kan! takde pon tanda2 di atas. syukur alhamdulillah!

biasanya orang miscarriaged akan mengelak buat D&C ni. ada mitos yang saya dengar lepas buat boleh mengurangkan chance nak pregnant. saya takut nak buat. ibunda cakap tak. itu kepercayaan orang kampung.huhu.ok.saya lagi kampung dari ibunda nampaknya.

tamparan ini mula-mula macam sangat berat. saya tak sure boleh bangun semula. hilang keyakinan diri. hilang kegembiraan.

tak sangka, dalam masa 5 hari saya dah pulih fizikal (luaran la) dan mental. semuanya atas bantuan family dan kawan-kawan.

dan juga suami tersayang. mesti la kan. walaupon saya tahu. tamparan itu kamu rasa same hebat, ataupon mungkin lebih. kehilangan zuriat, isteri saket, dan penat kene kerje lebih ;p

lepas buat DnC, perut sangat cramp, macam kene hiris dengan pisau. saya menangis masa tu. tak tahan saket. tapi masa tu macam kurang waras sedar sepenuhnya. kiss suami dan usapan di kepala (walaupon saket di perut) dapat mengurangkan saket.

baby,mama dah bukan wanita pregnant. mama wanita yang bawak baby yang dah tak bernyawa sejak 2 minggu lepas dalam rahim. kalau kamu masih tak nak keluar by esok, esok mama kene g cek lagi dan buat tindakan seterusnya. tolong la keluar dengan normal baby. supaya mama tak sakit sangat

mama keliru.kalau kamu dah takde dengupan jantung sepatutnya dua minggu lepas kenape last week kamu gerak2 lagi?kenape doctor tu cakap kamu ok jer?

faris/farisya.name simple yang kami pilih untuk kamu. tak ade rezeki nak tengok kamu besar. mungkin ada sebab.

doctor cakap bukan sebab bende mama buat ataupon bukan sebab benda yang mama tak buat.bukan sebab bende mama makan ataupon sebab benda yang mama tak makan.doctor cakap mungkin kamu ade kecacatan yang menyebabkan kamu tak mampu bertahan untuk membesar. mungkin ada hikmah disebalik kejadian. mungkin mungkin mungkin
ayat tu memang mama dah biasa dengar. dan memang bende yang selalu mama takut.

semalam mama tak leh tido.tak saba nak tunggu pagi. tunggu papa kamu bawa mama gi check up tempat laen.dan mengharap doctor tu salah. mama nak kamu hidup. semalam mama teringat balik ayat-ayat perbualan mama dan papa masa kami happy bila tahu kamu ada dalam perut mama.ayat ni macam di record. di rewind dan di play. berulang-ulang

'u rase baby ni laki ke perempuan'
'taktau lah, tapi i rase baby ni pompuan.sebab i nak baby laki. biasanya i tak dapat ape yang i nak.'

mama nak kamu membesar dan jadi bayi yang sihat.takpelah.mama happy sekurang-kurang nya mama ade peluang untuk rasa pengalaman mengandungkan kamu. kamu baby yang baek. tak pernah bagi mama masalah. mama tiada alahan pon. mungkin kamu tahu kamu tak lama. kamu nak pengalaman baek je letak kat mama.pengalaman mengandungkan kamu sangat bermakna.

semalam mama sedih. papa sangat sedih. mama sedih sebab papa sedih. tapi hari ni mama macam dah boleh terima untuk lepaskan kamu. dah takdir kita kan baby.

darah macam keluar banyak sikit petang ni.mungkin kamu dah bersedia nak berpisah ngan mama.mama dan papa sayang kamu. sangat-sangat